Gerald - Spirit Removal for "DS"
28 May 2007
by Ronnee Ruselle
Location: Australia
The following is a removal I performed for a Peaceful Willow visitor. Her poor son was being harrassed by a spirit who was constantly banging on his wall and waking him up. I starting picking up on someone as soon as the photos were downloading that "DS" had sent me. Below are the details of the removal. I refer to her son as "N" to protect his privacy.
A Grandfather comes through before I even see the photos. While I'm downloading them, I receive an image of what he looks like - white hair sticking up and bushy or spiky eyebrows. He's cranky.
He's just annoyed so he annoys N. I don't think it's a personal thing against N. I think he would have annoyed anyone who was in the room. Either he's just very cranky or he's got a touch of age-related dementia.
Ronnee: What is your name?
Spirit: Turns away with a sulky look on his face. "I'm not going to tell you my name". I know it starts with a 'G', but can't get the rest.
R: Why are you annoying the boy?
G: "Well someone needs to."
R: Why? He's only a boy.
G: "He irritates me."
R: Do you know him?
G: "Well enough. He's a boy ain't he?"
R: I'm afraid that's not a good enough reason to annoy someone. He's trying to have his much needed rest and you keep bothering him.
G: "Well...what else am I supposed to do?"
R: Don't you have any family members you'd like to see?
G: Immediately replies, "Mabel. She's my love, my darling, but she's gone."(passed away)
R: I'm seeing Mabel - a thin elderly lady who loved him very much. It's now being revealed that this poor man felt so angry and alone after she died that he remained cranky after he passed away. I feel that he has not realized he's passed away and it hasn't occurred to him that what he's doing is not something that he could've done if he was still alive. In such situations, the spirit is reacting through emotion and does not have the physical world around to sort of 'snap them out of it' and it's similar to experiencing a dream where they're doing things they may not normally do, but don't realize that it's odd until a medium draws their attention to it. I'll have to break it to him gently so he doesn't get too upset.
R: Tell me a little about Mabel.
G: "What's to tell...she left me." He looks like he's going to break down and cry. He has a flash of pain and hurt go through him, but then he realized that it wasn't her fault and says so.
R: What's the last thing you remember when you were in your own home?
G: Looks at me confused as if he's not sure what I mean. He thinks about it. Oh! I just saw his name - Gerald! He is thinking about his home and I can see it - he's walking up to the front of the house. The number on the letterbox is 38 with gold metal numbers. He walks up a driveway towards a small white cottage with white panels along the verandah. It would have been a gorgeous little house at one stage, but then the image changes to show it as it was closer to when he died. It has paint flaking off it and it's looking a bit faded now. There are people inside the house - younger relatives and they're wearing black. I'm pretty sure it's a wake, but he doesn't realize yet what's going on. He's wondering why they're there. He's getting closer and he recognizes a woman who's talking to him with her thoughts telling him that she loves him and that she'll miss him. It's his daughter. She is tall and thin and has hair cut in a long bob to about her shoulders. He's sort of wondering why she's upset etc. It hasn't occurred to him yet, but I know it's about to.
He is remembering what happened after he died. For some reason he blanked all of this out and forgot it, but he's now remembering. He's moving through the room and he sees and older man in his mid 50's or 60's I'd say - hair similar to his, but curlier and silvery white. The man is quite round and wearing a suit. He's holding a plate with a piece of cake on it. Gerald looks to see if it's chocolate or fruit cake and says "Yuk, hate fruit cake!" when he realizes that it's not chocolate.
I'm trying to draw him to look at things that may make him realize, but it's possible that he's avoiding it deliberately.
R: Gerald, why is everyone dressed in black?
G: (in a cranky tone) "How should I know?"
R: Is this what you remember last?
G: "Of course."
R: Where are you?
G: "I'm not there. I'm..."(he looks around) and realizes when he sees who's there and flowers etc. that someone has passed away.(curiously) "Now, what's happened here?"
R: Gerald, it's a funeral.
G: (with a cranky tone)"It's a wake!"
R: Sorry, you're correct. It's a wake. Do you remember attending this wake? (He hasn't seemed to realize that he's looking at it from above).
G: "I remember." (I think he's just realized - he's gone quiet and he's not happy).
R: Gerald…
G: "Just give me a moment please."
R: Ok. (After a few moments) You've a lovely family.
G: "Yes, the girls will miss me." (referring to his daughters)
R: Do you know how you ended up visiting (name omitted)?
G: "No. No idea. I turned from the wake and didn't know where to go. It's not something that was ever discussed so I had no idea what to do. I don't know what happened, but I ended up thinking about Mabel and getting annoyed that I'd lost her. I don't know how much time has gone by since then."
R: Well that's ok. I can help you.
G: "Really? That would be very nice."
R: I'm told that you can catch up with Mabel and then both of you will be able to keep an eye on your family. Would you like to do that?
G: (Tears come to his eyes). "Very much, yes."
R: I ask for a guide to escort Gerald to the doorway. A male guide appears and gently walks Gerald to the door. He's a bit hunched over and I think he may have had a walking stick or similar when he was alive as he automatically walks as if he would have one. He's approaching the door and I can see two arms reach out to him so Mabel is obviously standing in the doorway. He grabs her and stands there for a moment holding her and crying. She guides him through the door and it closes behind him.
I suspect that more spirits are in the vicinity, but will wait to hear from DS before doing more.
Follow up: DS tells me that all was well after the removal for a while and now someone else is bothering him. This is fairly common and often people need follow up removals. Actions that I recommended are being carried out and the energy does feel better, but we are now looking at what is the attraction for the spirits to help prevent further visits. Once this has been discovered and dealt with, removal of remaining spirits should bring some peace for the little boy.
Further update: Another removal was necessary. You can read about it in Natalia - Spirit Removal for DS