Change Need Not Be Bad
by Ronnee Ruselle
The guides explained to me a few years back that people go through what they called 'phases'. A phase is a period of time where your life changes to suit the new things that must come into your life in order to bring opportunities and to learn lessons.
When it's time for a new phase, you'll find that many things start to leave your life. The new things that come into your life can affect any and every part of your life - home, relationships, work, travel, finances - just off the top of my head. In your life, you'll have a range of different people and experiences come in and out of your life. They come to you to help you learn or to bring things to you that you need in order to follow your path. When each has completed its' purpose, it is time to move in order to make room for the next thing or person to come into your life.
Being very insecure creatures, when this occurs, instead of seeing the flow of nature and allowing them to leave, people usually panic and try to hold on tighter thinking it is a range of negative occurrences.
This does not stop them from leaving, but it does mean that if you don't let it go, it will be taken away forcefully because you cannot fight nature and the pain you experience will be much greater.
If you notice that friends are leaving your life, you lost your job, you have been evicted, then take the hint and go find new ones to replace them or ask life and your guides to bring the newness in. Bless what is leaving your life and give thanks for the learning it has brought to you. Send it on its' way with love.
It is not a negative time even though on the surface it seems to be. It is the most fabulous time because it is a time of freshness and new opportunities. No matter how hard you hang on, if it is meant to leave you, it will. If it is not, then it will stay or return. Follow the flow of nature and be alert for great things, for change brings great things.
A message about phases from the guides:
"You often feel that you have security where you are in life. You do not want to leave that because to do so threatens this security that you feel you
have, but this can be an illusion. What you see as security can often have chains attached that can hold you back in some way.
You believe that changing your security may bring worse to you, but the reality is that life is not really secure when you live this way. Life is telling you that
changing the direction you're heading in and moving in a new direction will bring brightness, happiness and most of all, freedom.
Freedom has a security of its own where you are not controlled by others. It means that you are secure to make any choices you wish knowing that you'll
be okay. Go with the flow, don't fight against it. Changes are not always negative. They are how good things come to you. If you do not make changes,
you cannot allow the good to come to you."
This is true, change is how good comes to us.
Don't despair when things leave your life. This is always the time to try for those dreams and get excited about the new, fresh, wonderful opportunities that are coming your way. Enjoy your phase.